Why I have started pylife my personal blog

Here we go, the first part of this blog. It will be continued, so make sure to be there, and let's build a good family together.

Pylife (ushpender )
Why I have started pylife my personal blog

"I have been pondering this question lately: What do I want to do in life? Many of us have this question at various stages in our lives. Some might encounter it during their formative years, while others may face it in middle age after experiencing numerous challenges. Still, some may confront it later in life."

"The answer to this question might vary from person to person. Some may want to achieve big things in life, such as cars, positions, power, or anything else that might fascinate them or be ingrained in their minds by the generational matrix."

"I never wanted this kind of life because I was born in 1995, and I am mostly inspired by the love and affection that used to be in the air during those years."

If I recall the old days, there used to be less tech and more love between people. Plus, people used to have time for each other. They used to listen to each other's problems and try to find solutions to those problems.

Many times, I feel nostalgic about life during the 2000s. We all see in memes that kids during the 2000s lived life. I always recall how we used to play cricket for long hours. I used to play cricket for around 5-6 hours daily in the heat. There was no proper cricket bat; the bat was made from wood taken from any tree, which was flat, and the ball was a 10 rupee "stumper" ball that used to bounce a lot.

We used to play in a field that was not well-maintained; it was full of thick, wild grass. All the kids from the entire village used to play together, and overs were not an issue because we had a lot of time on our hands.

The days were truly amazing. Rivers were full of water, and multiple-season crops flourished. Rainfall was plentiful, and the water levels were high. I can't remember anyone mentioning much about global warming during that time. Summer never felt too harsh on me because of the mango orchard, which was full of different mango trees. Those trees provided plenty of shade and space.

What has changed or is changing at a rapid rate

All of these things seem like impossible dreams for today's kids. Nowadays, people live in flats, and there is hardly any ground left for kids to play because all the land is used for construction and development purposes.

I feel like insensitive development is happening, and no one is talking about it. I see colonies and societies being developed without proper park facilities, and people end up buying land in these colonies without even giving it a second thought. This feels strange because there is no place left for the kids to play, and not everyone can afford to go to clubs and fancy stadiums.

Yep, all these changes are ruining both the next and the previous generations because there is no place to detox, and it feels like everyone is busy with something even though they are doing nothing at all.

All this overburden is affecting every aspect of our lives. Our minds are full, and there is no love left. People today seek comfort in terms of love; no one wants to take risks and fight for each other. Individualism is increasing like a fire in the forest, and we are not concerned about it.

I know there are bigger issues today, but these are also some of the biggest issues. If no love is left, then what's the point of even living in a society like this?

Yes, we need to address these things because change is part of life. But with change, we should also make sure it is taking us in the right direction instead of the wrong one.

Unnoticed Degradation Over Time

morale degradation
morale degradation

Date: 17 May 2024 Time: 11:03 Pm

This part is my favorite because I have been noticing it for a long time. I have seen people change with time, relationships falling apart, and it seems like no one knows what friendship means today. People connect for reasons, not for bonding.

Today, the world has more people than ever before, but at the same time, we are witnessing an increase in crimes, sexual harassment, rapes, and pornography. All these issues are degrading people's souls and causing morals to deteriorate, much like trees being shredded.

No one seems to be realizing the severity of the situation, and even those who do feel powerless to act against it, as everything is happening in the name of change. I remember watching a video where lingerie was openly displayed on a street in London, and many women were saying they wouldn't wear it. However, today's scenario is different; platforms like OnlyFans are the new trend.

I have nothing against these changes, but my concern lies with the new generation. They are exposed to all these things without proper context or guidance, and I worry whether they genuinely want to see everything that is being shown to them. It feels like an injustice to them, and this should be a matter of concern. The erosion of morals and the unchecked exposure to adult content might negatively impact their development and understanding of healthy relationships and self-worth.

All of these concern me sometimes because:

One can only differentiate between good and bad if they have seen both. If they have only witnessed one, it's hard for them to differentiate, and they will consider it normal.

So, we need to make sure that the new generations get a chance to see all the options, not just the metaverse, pornography, short videos, and other things that have been pushed on us with force.

Saturday, May 18 2024 Time: 3:30 am.

Writing at this time is not usual for me. Generally, I wake up at 4 am or 3 am, and I prefer to meditate or take a walk on the track. However, today is different. Our electricity has been out for at least 8 hours, and because of that, I was unable to sleep. I have been awake since 2 am, or maybe even earlier, waiting in my bed for the power to come back. Since it didn't, I decided to use my laptop and write.

This situation is quite normal here in India. Today, we talk about many things like a bright future for India and the G20 summit that took place here last year. Everything seemed fast-paced, as if everyone was working towards development. But now, it feels like I am living in a village where the power only comes on during weekends. Lol.

This is not just my frustration; it has become a norm. Power outages and garbage littering the streets make it feel as if I live in a dump yard. This isn't just the case in Mathura and Agra, but in most cities in India ( Bharat).

All these problems need to be addressed by us because that's the only way to make things right for this country. There are other issues as well, visible to all of us, but my concern is that if we call it the Land of Gods, then it should be neat, clean, and safe. However, all of these things seem to be an impossible dream today.

The paragraphs above illustrate the current condition of my city. Despite the launch of the metro, which is as useless as the Jaipur metro, I have nothing to do with all this, all I want is a clean city—nothing more.

This is also part of the unnoticed degradation where no one wants to talk about the problems around them; everyone prefers to live in a rabbit hole. Lol.

There are other issues as well, which I am going to cover in my blog. Some parts may contain my concerns, some might reflect my frustrations, and some will include my research over the years and the problems that I, and perhaps you and others, have faced.

I might not have the perfect solutions, but I believe that together we can find the right solutions for all these problems and bring about a positive change in the world.

What else is going to be there In this Blog

n this blog, you can expect a variety of engaging content that tackles the pressing issues of our cities and communities. Here’s a glimpse of what’s coming:

Eye-Opening Discussions: Honest conversations about the everyday problems we face, from power outages to littered streets, and why it’s crucial to address them.

Personal Experiences: Real-life stories of frustration and hope, reflecting my own journey and challenges, which many of you might relate to.

In-Depth Research: Comprehensive analysis and research on various issues, providing insights and understanding into the root causes and possible solutions.

Community Voices: Guest posts and interviews with local residents, activists, and experts who share their perspectives and ideas for improvement.

Actionable Solutions: Practical tips and collective strategies that we can implement together to make our cities cleaner, safer, and more livable.

Inspiration and Hope: Stories of successful initiatives and positive changes from around the world, proving that a better future is possible.

Every tag of this blog will represent one side of my personality or the things that keep me going. From my childhood to how I am living now, including my job, startups, freelancing, and everything that I have tried over the years, I am going to include it all in this blog. I aim to make it the most valuable blog you will ever come across on the internet.

This blog will include book recommendations, personal product reviews, college reviews, anime recommendations, and personal advice on topics like masturbation, watching porn, sex, content creation, depression, relationship advice, anxiety, startup culture, SEO tips, connection building, and many more in-depth topics that are necessary for our inner development.

Join me on this journey to uncover the truths, share our experiences, and work collectively towards a brighter, cleaner, and more sustainable world. Together, we can make a difference!

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